I am continuing to participate in "Flashback Friday". If you would like to see the host of this weekly event, please visit Christopher & Tia.
This is me probably around age 2. Way back in the late '80s. ;) The doll I'm holding in the photo was my best friend back then (who am I kidding? she slept on my bed until the day I got married...). Her name is Jammie Pies. No, I did not name her. She apparently was part of a group of character dolls made by Playskool in the late '80s, based off some Hallmark ornaments. If you would like to see more about Jammie Pies, click here (scroll down to the very bottom, mine is the last one...apparently her name is "Middy"--this is the first I have EVER heard of this!! I always called her Jammie Pies since it was tattooed on her foot).
Anyway, my paternal grandmother gave me this doll when I was born & out of all of the many many stuffed animals I possessed as a small child (and I had A LOT), THIS was the doll that I chose to be my best friend. My grandma also gave my brother one of the other Jammie Pies dolls (the one called "Spunkle" on the link) but he never really got into it.
I carried Jammie Pies around everywhere. When I was very small, apparently I would request my "pug", my "wug", and my "pies"...loosely translated: my "plug" (we call our son's a binky since a "plug" seems too much like you're shutting the child up), my "rug" (a cloth diaper that became a blankie since my parents' cloth diaper escapades lasted only a couple of days), and my "Jammie Pies". I couldn't sleep or go anywhere without them, and after I was weaned off of the binky and blankie, it was Jammie Pies that became my emotional friend. My mom tells me that whenever they would wash Jammie Pies (she became quite filthy being attached to a toddler) I would cry and sit in front of the washer and the dryer grumpy until she was done being cleaned. I wouldn't let her out of my sight.
Once when I was really young--probably not much older than me in the photo above--my mom thought it would make me happy if my grandma repainted the worn eyes on Jammie Pies when we were visiting them (my grandma is really crafty & good at painting). The eyes were pretty much worn off completely, but as soon as I found out my grandma had painted the eyes to look like new I threw a huge fit (I actually do have memories of this) and ended up crying and scratching (yes I scratched my dolls eyes out...) the paint off so she looked like my Jammie Pies again. Repainting of her eyes was never attempted again.
Over the years she remained my best friend (that sounds pretty sad doesn't it?), though I didn't take her everywhere as I grew older. She retained the special spot on my bed and she always came with me when I went somewhere else to stay the night. When my brother and I were young (I was probably four or five and my brother was probably two or three) my dad got fed up with us not cleaning our room so he put all of our toys into bags and took them to his room as punishment. And I mean every single one of our toys--except for both of our Jammie Pies (my dad knew that I would not be emotionally stable if he took her away & for some reason he thought the same for my brother, which was unfortunate since he had no emotional attachment to his Jammie Pies...he probably would've chosen a different toy if he could). We actually did survive with just our beds and Jammie Pies for a month or two until my brother's birthday and then Christmas. We didn't end up seeing the old toys until right before we were about to move and we really weren't all that excited to see them...most of the toys were broken or we had outgrown. So, the world really didn't come to end by not having those toys around--though it might have if my dad had taken away Jammie Pies. :)
I remember when I was eight or nine Jammie Pies went missing and I had no idea where she went and I was really upset about it. She had been gone for weeks and I was at the point where I was coming to grips with the fact that she would probably be gone forever. I was at one of my basketball games (basketball was my number one love in sports growing up) and during the half-time my grandma told me that she had someone held "hostage" at her house. I had left her there when I had spent the night weeks before and she found her curled and wadded up inside a blanket. I was elated that Jammie Pies wasn't lost and after that I was always a lot more careful about taking her anywhere.
When I was in the eighth grade I went on a trip to Washington D.C. with some classmates and teachers for a spring break field trip. I didn't take Jammie Pies with me because I was afraid she'd get lost fourteen and too old to need my doll to come with me. My mom claims that I left Jammie Pies sitting in a window watching for me "to get home" during that trip, but honestly I really don't think I did that. She'll claim up and down that I did, so we'll just let her have her way. :) (It's possible even though I don't remember)
In middle school and especially high school I didn't really spend a lot of time talking or playing with Jammie Pies--she spent most of her time on my bed and slept with me at night. She got me through nineteen years of emotions though: tantrums, tears, broken hearts, fights with friends, fights with family, joy, accomplishments, childhood imaginations, laughter, etc. She slept on my bed until the day I was married. The night before my wedding she was the one who I was cuddling with, and the next evening she was replaced by my husband. I still have her to this day and I hope to introduce her to Johnny sometime soon, but for now she is safely put away (frankly my son is pretty rough on his stuffed animals, even his lovey Gator--I think that is a boy thing to cuddle & then wrestle with the same friend). I will always remember Jammie Pies, and even though she is a little weird for a doll (which I really didn't even notice until my husband pointed it out to me when we were dating), I will be eternally grateful to her for being my best friend for the first nineteen years of my life. We had some good times. :) Even though my best friend is now an actual person--my husband (and Jesus)--she'll always be my first best friend. I hope that my son will have just as many adventures with his best friend Gator throughout the years (so far they seem to really enjoy each others company):

(Johnny is about 8 months old here...Gator is about 9 months old then since we got him at our baby shower from my maternal grandma)
My husband also had a favorite stuffed animal that he grew up with and it was the only stuffed animal he kept (he also slept with it from time to time growing up though he probably wouldn't admit it): Pookie. Pookie is an adorable and well-loved teddy bear that was actually John's dad's teddy bear when he was a kid. It now resides in Johnny's room with the rest of his stuffed animals and Johnny does love it (his lovey is still Gator which just goes to show you can't choose your child's best friend). It is a teddy bear on its third generation of John's, and we're hoping that it will make it to the bedroom of Johnny's firstborn son John too (we're assuming he will keep up the tradition of namesakes). :)
Thank you to all of the many beloved stuffed best friends out there in the world. Many lives are made better by your unconditional love & infinite potential for play. A special thanks to Jammie Pies, Pookie, & Gator. :)